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Blog 10: Reaction vs Response

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Hope you all have been enjoying the warmer weather!! I know it has been lifting my energy!  How was the last blog for you about compassion? Have you been able to practice talking to yourself in a more compassionate way? Feel free to email me your thoughts! Today we are talking about a tool called STOPP that I love to use! STOPP can be used when you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious, have a big decision, and/or when your tolerance is low. This tool will help us RESPOND vs REACT to daily situations.  Sometimes, we react to situations i.e. we are not thinking about how our actions will effect ourselves and others. We simple just act or say whatever comes out of our mouths. We can see or hear something, and react with defending ourselves, jumping to conclusions, aggression, yelling, accusing, or having no reaction which is shutting down.  These ways of reacting usually end up in: feeling awful about ourselves, ruminating over what happened and how it could have been different,  blaming o
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Blog 9: How to be more Kind and Compassionate to Ourselves..

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"Whenever I notice something about myself I don't like, or whenever something goes wrong in my life, I silently repeat the following phrases: "This is a moment of suffering. Suffering is part of life. May I be kind to myself in this moment. May I give myself the compassion I need." - Kristen Neff HHHIIIII everyone!!! It has been since the New Year that I have written!! How has it been treating you so far? I hope you had some great moments that make you feel good!  This blog is about Self Compassion!  As the weather warms up, we come out of our fog, we feel the mental clouds lifting, and maybe we take off that cozy sweatshirt, and are dressing more for Spring! As this next season comes, our thoughts might be changing. Some may have experienced some dark, negative thoughts during the winter season, and hopefully moving into Spring, will feel more of a sense of hope and release of that negativity. Hence, why SELF COMPASSION is sooo important to utilize right now - to ke
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2024: A New Year = A New Me, but does it really????!!!

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Wow! We are 11 days into January!!! Time is flying! How are we all doing in the New Year so far? This months blog is about moving forward in this new year and creating growth opportunities. Many people, this time of year, feel obligated to set new goals. It is what we have been told to do through advertisements, media posts, magazines, as well as, our social communities ask, what are your goals this year? Over the years, I have set goals, and each year, something felt off and often times, did not follow through. If you don't this know this about me already,  I am the type that likes to check things off of my to do list the second I complete them, and if it wasn't on the list, I add it and cross it off! So goals were written on top of every week of my calendar, and my thoughts were saying, "must get this done." Well, I wasn't or maybe I was, but I was exhausted.  I started reflecting on why I have feel like I have failed. I came up with the following conclusions:  
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Blog 7: AAAGGGHHH The Holidays are Approaching: How to Keep Your Cool!

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 HI ALL!!!!       Been sooo long since I have blogged! My apologies about that! Here is November and December in one and I will see you in January for more!  Thanksgiving and Christmas are almost here! This time of year can be very overwhelming for some due to the stress of having people over to feeling lonely to feeling all sorts of emotions. Some often feel obligated to spend with family members that well, we may not get along with or not share the same views on life, which can make for an extra stressful time. I think everyone has a different idea of what the holidays can hold and how they define this time of year. Everyone I talk to has a different idea, tradition, or activity that they do. I do know through personal and professional experience that this time of year can be doable, it can be FUN, and it can feel comfortable! And just how do we do this, you ask....through mindfulness and preparation! Practicing mindfulness during the holidays can be one of the most beneficial ways
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Blog 6: The Power of YOUR Breath!

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 Happy October!!!  Hope this blog finds you all well!  This blog is about our BREATH! A very powerful tool that we do subconsciously every day to keep us living! I personally forget sometimes that my breath is powerful, especially in high anxiety moments. As you know, we all have defense responses of fight, flight, or freeze when we feel scared, angry, sad, or anxious. How wonderful would it be to rely on our breath to bring our cortisol levels down in those high emotional times? Let's first review how to breathe.... yes, it may seem like a silly question, but I for one, learned a few years that I was breathing WRONG!       So, take a quiet moment and focus on your breath. Put one hand on your belly and one hand on your chest. Become aware. Take notice if your chest rises and falls. Does your belly rise and fall? Now take a big inhale through your nose...which rises or gets bigger - your belly or your chest??? Very important question here! The answer should be your belly.  Are so
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Blog 5: Part II: Nutrition for Mental Health

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Happy September! It is cooler weather today, which I am very grateful for!!!  As I love learning more and more about how nutrition plays a role in our mental health, I thought I would continue to talk about it!  For me, when I began to learn about this, I knew this wasn't just a trend or a fad, but a lifestyle change. In fact, I don't like the words DIET, FADS, KETO, ATKINS....they may work for a short period of time and I commend them for what they stand for and try to do. However in the long run, these diets don't last. We discussed your relationship with food in the last blog, and let me tell you, that is truly the key to long term success. Asking yourself, when I eat this nightshade vegetable (bell peppers, eggplant, tomatoes) how do I feel? When I eat a whole bowl of pasta, what does my tummy feel like afterwards and what is my mood like? Being in tune with you, is so crucial to mental health wellness! This is a long term lifestyle or way of eating because once you fig
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Blog 4: Part I: Nutrition for Mental Health

Hello Hello!!! Catching up here for our August blog!  To recap, we have learned how self care relates to our anxiety, hormones, cortisol, adrenals, and stress. In addition, we have learned about next steps in taking a pause to ask ourselves what the best for you right now, as well as you were given tools to track your food, mood, and stool. So now with this blog and upcoming blogs, we will dive into daily tools that you can use to increase self care, and to help you regulate your moods, so that you can feel more balanced, nurtured, and energized!!  We will start with nutrition.  It is not a secret that what we eat can have a significant impact on our mental health. I have done a ton of research and have found that there is a strong connection between nutrition and mental health, with certain foods being so important for our brain function, gut health, and mood regulation. Now, what I am saying does not mean that you have to go cold turkey and eat all fruits and vegetables. Remember the
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